June 10th, 2019
Changes
Since I last wrote on this notebook, a lot has happened. The most relevant thing is that I’ve changed my job. I used to work at the Centre of New Opportunities in Girona, where I had direct intervention with young people. I spent many hours with them, face to face, and gave them classes on transversal skills (teamwork, self-esteem, stress and emotion management…) and job hunting.
I’m currently working as an occupation technician at the Baix Empordà Regional Council’s job bank. Leaving a programme halfway through was very hard for me, especially because I spent
so many hours with the same kids, accompanied them extensively and created strong bonds. As a professional, this generated a series of concerns and mixed feelings that made me reflect even more on my role in my field of work. This time around I prioritized myself, but I had to give up other things that I had in my old job and I don’t have now. Still, I choose to remind myself that I was able to experience different ways of working with young people.
Now, my guidance is much more oriented towards job hunting, and I am no longer spending every day hand in hand with the kids; therefore, the accompaniment that I carry out is more superficial and I do not reach such emotional and personal levels as I did before in the other job.
Even so, my experience and professional background now allows me to easily detect cases that need more intensive guidance on a more personal level. Observation, which I have mastered thanks to my old job, allows me to discern who is more autonomous and needs less mentoring, and who, in comparison, needs more emotional support. The search for a job and integration into the job market undoubtedly contribute to youth empowerment, but it always has to be followed by a solid self-esteem. Job counselling sometimes becomes an “excuse” to work at a deeper level, making the whole process culminate in a more real empowerment.
I would like to mention Carla’s example; a 26-year-old girl who had a child when
she was very young. She came to our job orientation programme with the intention of changing her career path. Until then, she had been working as a house cleaner and now she wanted to receive training and work as a warehouse assistant. At the beginning she was very insecure and had many concerns about getting into a sector that was complicated in terms of gender equality. I think that my guidance in this process was useful to mitigate the moments of stress and doubts. In the end, she was the first one to find a job as a warehouse worker and was using all of the logistics vehicles. From the start, they placed a lot of trust on her.
How do I think I contributed to her empowerment? By doing a lot of individual tutoring, accompanying her
and constantly observing the situation in order to detect moments when she felt distressed despite not being able to verbalise it. In addition to this observation, it has also been useful to support her on an informal level, not only with individual tutoring, but also via WhatsApp and on the phone; in short, through the resources that young people now use. We must adapt and speak their language; it is the only way to have a real approach.