December 12th, 2018
The term “empowerment”, which we use a lot – as well as “entrepreneurship” and other words like these– does not quite convince me. It’s not that I don’t believe in its meaning, but I think it places a lot of value and status to something that we all go through.
I always try to talk about “maturity processes”. From my own experience and from what I have seen among the youth I have worked with throughout the years, one of the issues that concerns me the most about maturity processes – or growth, or empowerment, call it what you will – is the possibilities that each person has to make mistakes along the steps of this process.
I think that the possibility of making mistakes and the consequences that follow are closely linked to the personal, social, family or economic situation of each young person, therefore, not all young people have the same opportunities to make mistakes and obtain second chances.
Going back to my personal experience, while I was involved with the Children’s Casal and began to establish myself as a social worker, I had friends from my same environment and in similar socio-economic situations who made other decisions and made “mistakes” that they have never been able to take back. Over the years, I realised that if those decisions were pulled out of the social context of that period’s Raval and moved to a neighborhood that is four steps
away, as is the Eixample, surely these kids would have had the opportunity to repeat these decisions and reshape the path they were taking. This situation, which repeats itself even now in different contexts, worries me when I think about maturity or empowerment processes.
Making mistakes makes you grow up: Why don’t we give all young people the same opportunities to make mistakes and rectify them? As a social worker, how can I give these opportunities to the kids I work with, those who normally do not have them? It is a very delicate task in which you have to continually find a balance between your objectives (what is set for you by the social entity or your financiers), and at the same time let the kids clash with reality, make mistakes, go backwards and then forwards again.