May 3rd, 2019
I would like to talk about those young migrants who have come here alone, unaccompanied, and who, therefore, have been tutored by the Administration. What happens when they turn 18 and leave this tutelage? Some of them, if they have had a very good process – and having a very good process means doing everything that the majority of 17-year-olds here would not do: being late a single day, arguing, getting caught with a bit of weed because you were having a laugh with friends… –, if they have not done anything that most teenagers do, they have the opportunity of having a place to live when they became of age.
The determining factors, however, don’t end here. There are other obligatory determinants: they will have to study or work. For them, access to the job market is almost impossible because they do not have work permits, so they have to continue their training and be continuously active. This is the profile of an 18-year-old teenager.
What happens when a kid with this profile comes to me for their training on how to become a waiter, for example? They arrive without any real interest in becoming waiters, without a clear conception of what being a waiter means or implies, and, above all, with a general lack of motivation and a desire to finish training without having to study too much. In short, they begin training just “to be doing something”.
When the process of learning and understanding not just the trade, but all of the transversal skills that it brings into play and that derive from the very needs of the job really begins, one of two things can happen: that they really feel motivated and find in this trade a good job opportunity, or that none of this happens.
When it does not happen, a very complex situation is created, and as an education professional it is very difficult to find a resource that will help them get out of this spiral of feeling unmotivated. Motivation is not something that can be taught or given. You can encourage them, but motivation is intrinsic. They have to discover what is the internal engine that can help them with the process of growth, and sometimes they
don’t have enough time or opportunities to find this engine. If this happens to you when you have your family beside you and you realise you made a mistake with your decisions, you have a buffer that will help you get back up, get back on your feet and try to keep looking for that motivation. These young people, however, do not have this buffer. If they fall once, they might be lifted up; if they fall a second time, they will rarely find a very good professional to lift them up; if they fall a third time, they will not get back up.
This is what concerns me about empowerment processes, which basically consist of finding this internal motivation that makes you choose your path and start making your decisions driven by motivation.
I am concerned that there is a significant part of the population that does not have the same opportunities, because their environment and their socioeconomic and family situation does not allow them.