May 10th 2019
Context and family
Today I will reflect on how the context influences young people’s empowerment. First of all, a clarification on the influence of the context. One of my starting points in my therapeutic work is from a Catalan saying “there is no bad wind for a good sailor”, meaning that everything is up to the attitude we have to face what happens to us.
From that point of view, the context in which they live in is secondary, since the main point is the attitudes they develop, which are, in my opinion, where empowerment lies.
Therefore, the role context plays is that of putting the ingredients in order to work at an inner level, where, I insist, lies the true value of a person. Focusing on context, the factor that has a bigger impact on a person’s development is family. In my experience, the relationship young people have had and have with their families strongly determines their self-esteem, their ability to take responsibility, their ability to find a place in this world, to have a clear idea of what they want, being self-sufficient, etc. All of this has to do with the affective relationship they have had with their parents.
In general, besides family, the other key elements that have an impact on their empowerment are their partners (if they
have one), their friends, their work, and their studies.
About their studies, I’m surprised how badly they are left with the overload of work and exams they are subjected to, so that they end up extremely stressed.
I find that this overload that many carry, restricts them, and doesn’t allow them to enjoy their friends, what they want after finishing their studies, and even building a relationship with their partners.
We will continue.