April 8th, 2019
I have 16 years’ experience at the Foundation. I have experienced five or six cases of young people who have made spectacular processes, but these are exceptional cases that are not repeated often. What we normally experience are much slower maturation processes that are adapted to their realities, which are what they are.
You feel very happy and proud of these exceptional processes, but you have to be careful when establishing comparisons and putting them as an example.
You also experience processes that start, but do not end well.
In both cases, and for the sake of our mental and personal health, you have to try not to take responsibility. When dealing with empowerment, we have to keep in mind that, for better or worse, the responsibility is theirs. We can’t pat ourselves in the back for what they’ve achieved, the same way we can’t torture ourselves for what they haven’t.
Obviously, witnessing long-term results stirs up many emotions; emotions that are often indescribable and that have to be experienced, but always protecting yourself. In the end, your role is what it is: a person who has been by their side during a small part of their journey.